Questions for the two of you.

01

The moment I knew this was real …

• Our first date
• A late-night talk
• When you showed up for me
• A trip we took together
• It snuck up on me slowly

02

After a hard day, what I mostly need is …

• Quiet time to myself
• To talk it all out
• A hug, no words needed
• A distraction together
• Food and comfort first

03

The small thing you do that means most …

• Making me a drink
• Handling something for me
• Checking how I am
• Feeding me well
• Taking something off my plate

04

When you vent to me, my instinct is to …

• Fix the problem
• Just listen
• Comfort you first
• Ask questions
• Get mad on your behalf

05

The words that land hardest for me …

• “I’m proud of you”
• “I’ve got you”
• “I want you”
• “I trust you”
• “You matter to me”

06

When I want your attention, I usually …

• Just say so
• Get physically close
• Tease or joke around
• Send you something
• Wait and hope you notice

07

My favorite kind of fun with you …

• Game nights in
• A night out together
• Being silly at home
• Shows and movies
• Getting outdoors

08

My perfect date with you now …

• A slow dinner out
• A cozy night in
• Exploring somewhere new
• A show or live thing
• A whole day, no plans

09

Our ritual I’d never give up …

• Morning coffee together
• Our meals together
• Our show at night
• Our walks
• How we say goodnight

10

The way I most naturally show care …

• Doing things for you
• Words and checking in
• Physical affection
• Small gifts
• Just being present

11

How I like being thanked …

• Said out loud
• With affection
• Returned in kind
• Just being noticed
• I don’t need it

12

My ideal weekend together is …

A scale, from All cozy at home to Out on an adventure